Hello Sugar Babies!!

How are you all? This is my first blog and there will be so much more to come.
In this blog I talk about my decision to become a sugar baby, the sites i've chosen to sign up with and why, and getting to know the potential sugar daddies that have messaged me, so if this peaks your interest, read on!
What made me choose the sugar baby lifestyle you may ask? growing up, i've always had sisters that had "sugar daddies" but they were an item, and the sugar daddies weren't that old, probably 8 years age difference max. Thing is, I was always jealous of all the gifts they got, Chanel perfume, Juicy couture, Gucci bags, LV bags... like come on, which girl wouldn't right? but those were gifts, I would say it was rare for my sisters to have been given money, and if so, it wasn't much, probably no more than $300 a month. Well, they've all moved out now and are married/have kids and that left me, with my younger brother still in the house. I come from a broken family, long story short, my parents and I kept butting heads and I decided to pack up my stuff and I left, so now, I'm on my own, struggling with money, but never happier.
I signed up to SD.com but found out you had to pay to use the site, on that note, I was wondering if it was even worth it since i'm new to this and all. Needless to say, I did my research and found tons of negative reviews on SD.com, so I'm gonna put that on hold til I'm already experienced in the game, however, I did come across SA.com and its free, great site to test the waters I might add.
I had probably 18 messages overnight! I was excited but common sense kept telling me there might not be anything to be excited about due to internet predators, wannabe sugar daddies, creepy, lonely guys that just want sex. Well me being a newbie at this whole lifestyle, I didn't know much about how to talk to the sugar daddies, what to say, and how to ask how it all works regarding gifts and allowance. Unsurprisingly, I had to weed through all the messages and all in all, I found 4 possible sugar daddies, yeap, from 18.. to 4! So new sugar babies, watch out!
Things that helped me in the elimination process..
1.If they mention sex right off the bat, DELETE. (We're sugar babies, not prostitutes)
2.If you check out their profiles and feel something is off or they seem to be a fake, DELETE. (Trust your gut, saves you time and energy)
3.If you check out their profiles and they have no pictures, they seem decent, message them and ask for pictures for you to see, of course in a cute/flirtatious way, (who knows? they may be the jackpot you're looking for) if they object, ignore your question..which has happened to me, or they send you a picture that looks as if it could be searched on google images, DELETE! (Self explanatory)
4.If they make you feel uncomfortable within the first couple messages sent back and forth, i.e. talking about fantasies<== which to a certain point is normal, but you'll know when its crossing the line, disrespecting you, pressuring you to meet them right away.. DELETE! (In my honest opinion.. a sugar daddy who genuinely cares for you, would probably like to get you to feel comfortable around them, and even so, do some more digging and get to know all the gritty details about him, and wouldn't want to freak you out by asking you to see him the same day)
*There is probably more I could add to this list and some of you may disagree with me, but this is MY elimination process
So after deciding there were probably 4 potential pots.. I messaged all 4 of them and got to know each one,  
1. There is this white guy who is around his mid 40's, he lives in a city not too far from me, an hour drive? and he seems so genuine and so sweet, we'll call him Mr. sweetums. We've talked about my allowance and right now, i'm starting off at a low amount, I figure I can always up the amount if needed, SEEMS like I have him hook, line, and sinker, so my amount currently is a minimum of 1500, he says he will pay me per visit so that I know he's not cheating me, as I expressed to him my concerns of all the bad seeds on SA and my trust issues, he also claims he has had a previous SB for 6 years and still is good friends with her and gives her a bit here and there but he says he'll focus all his attention on me. CONS! yes, CONS! I don't know what it is but he's either haven't had any in a very very long time or is a creep haha. He keeps asking me about what I don't like in bed, what I do, what my fantasies are, which I don't mind too much because I do consider myself a freak in the sheets, and so far, that is that, I still have to do a little bit more digging to see who he truly is, but for now, he's caught my attention, so my ranking.. HIGHLY POSSIBLE SD. (5 stars)
2. There is this asian guy, we will call him HT, I happen to be asian myself so I figure, what the heck, I'll tread the waters. We messaged back and forth and we got to know each other better, he's alright but far from the high ranking of Mr. Sweetums. On the 3rd email he sent me, he cut to the chase and was saying he was looking for some "intimate fun" and I straight up told him that I'm not down for that, if we can have dates where we can just watch movies, hang out, relax without him getting in my pants too, it might work out, and of course a SD/SB relationship at one point will lead to sexual activities, if you disagree, this isn't gonna work out for you. He than said that he is a gentleman and we would have regular dates as well, we haven't yet discussed my allowance amount and all that, but once we do, you guys will read about it :) oh, and he's young, 25 years old, so I am a little doubtful of him, BUT if he is all that he seems, and we go out in public, it'll probably feel more natural to be with someone around my age. Ranking for this guy atm.. Iffy(3 stars)
3. This guy is white, extremely handsome and is close to 50 years old, we'll call him Mysterioso, the reason for his name is because that's exactly what he is, MYSTERIOUS! for an old guy, I'd jump his bones any day and any time! from the few messages we've sent back and forth and i mean FEW. like 2 emails from him and 3 emails from me, and about 6-7 text messages from each of us, he seems so well mannered, so sweet, very complimentary, he compliments me all the time, and I can sense a bit of cockiness from him, he keeps saying "you'll like me" which I don't mind at all, it's quite attractive. He had forewarned me he'd be extremely busy the next two weeks and boy, he was not joking, he seems to always be on the run, hopefully after these 2 weeks, he'll make some time to get to know me better, he said he'd squeeze in some time for a dinner date but I told him not to worry, we have all the time in the world, and he has not once asked me anything sexual but mentioned it by saying "he's the energizer bunny" <== why is it that guys like to use this phrase so often lol. Anywho's that is all I know of Mysterioso, I must say I think he's got me thinking of him more than I am thinking of him, gotta turn that around, any advice for me from all you veteran sugar babies? I would really appreciate it.
4. Number 4 is a brown guy, we'll call him Handsome. From what I can tell so far, which is not a lot, he has one picture on SA, he's cute, takes care of his image, and he sports a chin strap which is my weakness, oh so sexy, but, I don't mean to stereotype but I'm worried of his stench, he did add in his message he is very clean, takes care of his hygiene and he only wants to meet 3-4 times a month for an allowance of 5000! BUT, yes, BUT! he says the way he is going to give me money is through direct deposit bi weekly of 2500, what do you babies think? suspicious? is this normal? feedback would be great! and the payroll is basically coming from his company, he says it'll be an employee pay cheque which is understandable because he mentioned discreet relationship, and the money is great! but method of payment has me on edge, any babies out there who have had payments like this before? I haven't really messaged him that much because Mr. Sweetums has had me preoccupied with conversation the past couple of days

After reading all of this, directed mainly at the veteran sugar babies, what do you babies think? any advice for me? I would really appreciate it. Thanks for reading, I know its lengthy. xox Jayde Nicole