Hello everyone,
Not even sure if anyone is still interested in following my blog anymore lol.. very understandable.
Well, nothing has changed.. much, new relationship.. which happens to be chaotic, moved back home with my parents, got a puppy in December of 2010, he is now almost a year old and I love him to death.
Hmm... well i'm back at this tedious cycle of looking for a SD. I've decided i'm a lot more high maintenance then I previously thought and my boyfriend is not taking care of my needs so I need a SD to fill that void.
Umm... hmm.. nothing new to write for now, however, i'm a tad bit screwed.. because I haven't been on blogger, facebook, or my SB email account for about 10 months now.. I've forgotten all the passwords :( to everything.. but i'm hoping I saved it on that password app on my old blackberry. *crosses fingers*
Well, I will update this as soon as I can and as soon as something actually interesting happens related to my sugar hunting regime.
P.S. to all the loyal followers that happen to be reading this and are still following, thank you and xoxoxo! Have a great day, until my next post, take care and good luck on your sugar hunt for those of you still looking and for those who have SD's, I hope you continue to be spoiled to your expectations and more. Bye for now <3
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
I'm backkk!
OMG serious hiatus, I'm so sorry I haven't posted anything in such a long time, but I'll update you guys on whats happening.
So school started again so i've been busy with that, which means, my sugar hunt isn't going very well, I still have a SD that's still texting me here and there, but he's kinda iffy.. he says things like, "hey, how are you? you wanna go to dinner tomorrow night?" uhm... lol I have a life too.. this is the same one that I mentioned earlier that was hanging out with playmates..
But, the good news, well kind of.. lol, this is a little peek into my personal life, so read whatever is below if you want to, if not, its not really related to sugar life, so to those of you who chose not to read, thanks for still continuing to follow me, I appreciate it <3
K, I need to vent, like bad.. so I know I haven't ever mentioned my love life in addition to my sugar life, or lack there of lmao. I'm stressed out of my mind but so damn happy at the same time, a few of you girlies and gentlemen are on my sugar facebook and may be aware that I am not single... I WAS engaged, not anymore.. I was with this guy, we'll call him Josh, for the longest time, we're talking like 5 years. I thought I was in love with him.. but now, I think I just love him and care for him as I would a best friend.
Damn.. there's so much to say but i'll try and keep it short. So, I think I've lost that spark for him and I have this other friend, he's been my best friend since grade 9 high school, he's always been there for me, and I've always thought he was a cutie patootie, and I never thought I'd ever feel much more than that.. yeap, you guys guessed it, I'm falling for him.
We'll call my best friend Rob lol. I'm putting my sugar hunt on hold right now because i'm trying to sort out all these thoughts and emotions I have for this guy, and to say the least, it's draining all of me.. I'm trying to figure out, should I leave Josh, whom I've been with forever, and choose Rob whom I've always loved as a best friend.. or stay with Josh and always have these feelings for Rob.. ughh damnit. It'll be easy if Josh was an asshole, but he's not. K, a little background on both these guys..
Josh
-he's caring
-he's loving
-he has no ambitions or drive for anything
-works
-has a car (shitty 97 pathfinder)
-very routine
-takes his frustrations and anger out on me, even if I'm the one trying to help
-most of the time, is in a sucky crappy mood, which I have to deal with
-ignorant, and likes to think he's right all the time and he doesn't listen to anyone else
-stubborn, in a very bad way
-no chivalry what so ever
-7 years older than me
-bad at saving his money and is broke most of the time
[Don't get me wrong, I'm not high maintenance, but I would like to be treated like a lady once in a while)
Rob (oh how I love this kid)
-same age as me
-has 2 jobs
-cares for me
-loves me, currently a little more than a friend
-has goals, ambition and drive for better things in life
-an absolute sweetheart
-considers my feelings 24/7
-can carry a conversation
-has a car (03' cobra)
-saves his money, never broke (I know he can provide for me)
[I don't plan on making this a SD and SB relationship, I truly care for this guy]
I guess that spark in my relationship with Josh was gone long ago but I stayed for security, I KNOW him, and I KNOW I won't get hit in the face by anything that would hurt me. I've always had a thing for Rob, and I never was sure what it was, even though I was with Josh, I would still hold hands, link arms and hug Rob for a longer amount of time than what is expected of 2 friends.
*sigh* The other thing is that Rob and I have the same group of friends, and our main group consists of Rob and I, this other girl we'll call Cassie and this other guy we'll call Tom. I never suspected or knew Cassie likes Rob.. but ever since she started suspecting something was going on with Rob and I, I could sense there was something bugging her. Not to mention she read a text msg on Rob's phone which I had sent him that pretty much spoke for itself and she had asked him what was going on with us and he replied with, "she's just joking with me." (we're trying to keep it on the down low until it's official) Anyhow, today I was talking to Rob on the phone and apparently Cassie talked to Rob earlier on the phone and was asking him if him and I did anything, and he answered no, (to be honest, we did) and she goes on about how he "should have known, she was saving herself for him, she said she was waiting for him"... which I think she's serious about but he thinks she's joking.
Now, Rob and I are considering becoming an item but we're taking it slow, and we're expecting some sort of backlash from Cassie and Tom (Tom likes to tease, all in good nature of course but gets quite annoying, Cassie I have a feeling just won't be happy with this).
So now, my decision is, wtf do I do?!?!? I'm on a break with my ex fiance, and he has no clue whats going on but we decided that for now, we can see other people if we choose to. Now it boils down to, who do I choose? damnit, suggestions and advice are welcome! I need help, and Jesus lmaoo
So school started again so i've been busy with that, which means, my sugar hunt isn't going very well, I still have a SD that's still texting me here and there, but he's kinda iffy.. he says things like, "hey, how are you? you wanna go to dinner tomorrow night?" uhm... lol I have a life too.. this is the same one that I mentioned earlier that was hanging out with playmates..
But, the good news, well kind of.. lol, this is a little peek into my personal life, so read whatever is below if you want to, if not, its not really related to sugar life, so to those of you who chose not to read, thanks for still continuing to follow me, I appreciate it <3
K, I need to vent, like bad.. so I know I haven't ever mentioned my love life in addition to my sugar life, or lack there of lmao. I'm stressed out of my mind but so damn happy at the same time, a few of you girlies and gentlemen are on my sugar facebook and may be aware that I am not single... I WAS engaged, not anymore.. I was with this guy, we'll call him Josh, for the longest time, we're talking like 5 years. I thought I was in love with him.. but now, I think I just love him and care for him as I would a best friend.
Damn.. there's so much to say but i'll try and keep it short. So, I think I've lost that spark for him and I have this other friend, he's been my best friend since grade 9 high school, he's always been there for me, and I've always thought he was a cutie patootie, and I never thought I'd ever feel much more than that.. yeap, you guys guessed it, I'm falling for him.
We'll call my best friend Rob lol. I'm putting my sugar hunt on hold right now because i'm trying to sort out all these thoughts and emotions I have for this guy, and to say the least, it's draining all of me.. I'm trying to figure out, should I leave Josh, whom I've been with forever, and choose Rob whom I've always loved as a best friend.. or stay with Josh and always have these feelings for Rob.. ughh damnit. It'll be easy if Josh was an asshole, but he's not. K, a little background on both these guys..
Josh
-he's caring
-he's loving
-he has no ambitions or drive for anything
-works
-has a car (shitty 97 pathfinder)
-very routine
-takes his frustrations and anger out on me, even if I'm the one trying to help
-most of the time, is in a sucky crappy mood, which I have to deal with
-ignorant, and likes to think he's right all the time and he doesn't listen to anyone else
-stubborn, in a very bad way
-no chivalry what so ever
-7 years older than me
-bad at saving his money and is broke most of the time
[Don't get me wrong, I'm not high maintenance, but I would like to be treated like a lady once in a while)
Rob (oh how I love this kid)
-same age as me
-has 2 jobs
-cares for me
-loves me, currently a little more than a friend
-has goals, ambition and drive for better things in life
-an absolute sweetheart
-considers my feelings 24/7
-can carry a conversation
-has a car (03' cobra)
-saves his money, never broke (I know he can provide for me)
[I don't plan on making this a SD and SB relationship, I truly care for this guy]
I guess that spark in my relationship with Josh was gone long ago but I stayed for security, I KNOW him, and I KNOW I won't get hit in the face by anything that would hurt me. I've always had a thing for Rob, and I never was sure what it was, even though I was with Josh, I would still hold hands, link arms and hug Rob for a longer amount of time than what is expected of 2 friends.
*sigh* The other thing is that Rob and I have the same group of friends, and our main group consists of Rob and I, this other girl we'll call Cassie and this other guy we'll call Tom. I never suspected or knew Cassie likes Rob.. but ever since she started suspecting something was going on with Rob and I, I could sense there was something bugging her. Not to mention she read a text msg on Rob's phone which I had sent him that pretty much spoke for itself and she had asked him what was going on with us and he replied with, "she's just joking with me." (we're trying to keep it on the down low until it's official) Anyhow, today I was talking to Rob on the phone and apparently Cassie talked to Rob earlier on the phone and was asking him if him and I did anything, and he answered no, (to be honest, we did) and she goes on about how he "should have known, she was saving herself for him, she said she was waiting for him"... which I think she's serious about but he thinks she's joking.
Now, Rob and I are considering becoming an item but we're taking it slow, and we're expecting some sort of backlash from Cassie and Tom (Tom likes to tease, all in good nature of course but gets quite annoying, Cassie I have a feeling just won't be happy with this).
So now, my decision is, wtf do I do?!?!? I'm on a break with my ex fiance, and he has no clue whats going on but we decided that for now, we can see other people if we choose to. Now it boils down to, who do I choose? damnit, suggestions and advice are welcome! I need help, and Jesus lmaoo
Friday, August 27, 2010
I think I've got em!
Hey girlies!!
Uber exciting news today! I've been up since 5:30am, I don't even know why, I was catching up on Joan SB's blog while texting this potential POT, but its true, the early bird gets the worm! haha lmaoo well not necessarily, but today, yes! We'll call him Ren Ren, I recieved a message from him on SA, actually, he was the first one to message me on SA when I signed up lol, but he's not that attractive in my eyes, he's 47 and a construction worker, I don't know what he does at the construction site but he's bringing in more than a mill annually, which is fine by me! and his net worth is 10 mill to 50 mill, I think i've hit the jackPOT.
He seems very well mannered, very gentleman like, and I only messaged him back because he messaged me twice on SA, the second message saying that he is still interested in being my SD, with a 3 weeks span in between the messages (not stalkerish or desperate at all), so I was like "oh what the heck, might as well." He compliments me a lot and i'm not complaining, I made sure to bring up the topic that I am a new SB and have no experience, saying that to test and see what he was going to say, as most guys fail this test HORRIBLY, and he passed the test. He said "I'll be gentle and take care of you, well, at first I'll provide you an allowance per visit until we get more established." We are supposed to go to dinner on Thursday of next week, I'm excited! He's been the only guy on SA that has asked me to go to a proper dinner just to get to know each other WITHOUT expectations.
I have a good gut feeling about this. Which I haven't felt since I signed up for SA. He offered to pay for my cab ride to the restaurant as the restaurant is in the next city from my city that I live in, and I don't think he is actually one of the guys that hammer nails and such into walls/wood, as he seems to text me back on a very timely basis. He's Italien which is great for me as I do speak a little bit of Italien lol. I'll try and amuse him with my language skills, since that is his first language.
Now... the question is, how will I bring up the allowance amount talk... I hate that part, I think I'm not doing it right as I can swear after I have that talk with the potentials, I never hear from them again =( lmao, I expect no less than 4-5grand a month.
So what do you girls think?! leave me comments! =) oh, and wish me luck, I shall update you girls as soon as I have news on the situation.
Jayde Nicole xox
Uber exciting news today! I've been up since 5:30am, I don't even know why, I was catching up on Joan SB's blog while texting this potential POT, but its true, the early bird gets the worm! haha lmaoo well not necessarily, but today, yes! We'll call him Ren Ren, I recieved a message from him on SA, actually, he was the first one to message me on SA when I signed up lol, but he's not that attractive in my eyes, he's 47 and a construction worker, I don't know what he does at the construction site but he's bringing in more than a mill annually, which is fine by me! and his net worth is 10 mill to 50 mill, I think i've hit the jackPOT.
He seems very well mannered, very gentleman like, and I only messaged him back because he messaged me twice on SA, the second message saying that he is still interested in being my SD, with a 3 weeks span in between the messages (not stalkerish or desperate at all), so I was like "oh what the heck, might as well." He compliments me a lot and i'm not complaining, I made sure to bring up the topic that I am a new SB and have no experience, saying that to test and see what he was going to say, as most guys fail this test HORRIBLY, and he passed the test. He said "I'll be gentle and take care of you, well, at first I'll provide you an allowance per visit until we get more established." We are supposed to go to dinner on Thursday of next week, I'm excited! He's been the only guy on SA that has asked me to go to a proper dinner just to get to know each other WITHOUT expectations.
I have a good gut feeling about this. Which I haven't felt since I signed up for SA. He offered to pay for my cab ride to the restaurant as the restaurant is in the next city from my city that I live in, and I don't think he is actually one of the guys that hammer nails and such into walls/wood, as he seems to text me back on a very timely basis. He's Italien which is great for me as I do speak a little bit of Italien lol. I'll try and amuse him with my language skills, since that is his first language.
Now... the question is, how will I bring up the allowance amount talk... I hate that part, I think I'm not doing it right as I can swear after I have that talk with the potentials, I never hear from them again =( lmao, I expect no less than 4-5grand a month.
So what do you girls think?! leave me comments! =) oh, and wish me luck, I shall update you girls as soon as I have news on the situation.
Jayde Nicole xox
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Am I expected to sign a contract?!
Hey sugars!
K, so I've been MIA for 3 or so days now, been busy running errands, but just a quick update, I've compiled my list for the post about "manipulating" men to get what you want, without having to put out.. well atleast, not as much lol. So that will be up some time tomorrow.
Now, I don't know if I mentioned this one SD, his name is xam maximus on facebook, any of you girls out there come in contact with him? his emails are like contracts, here's a paragraph.. "Please understand that with our negotiated agreement, said agreement shall be structured to increase over time, with the development of the arrangement and the quality and frequency of said same. The current cap that shall be reached over time is $48,000 per annum, but add to said same the benefits, perks, bonuses, and gifts, and it is well in line with the more traditional relationships (trophy wife, which this is NOT). Again, not seeking a trophy wife (at this stage), and time, quality and quantity are benchmarks in this and any other arrangement."
K, so I've been MIA for 3 or so days now, been busy running errands, but just a quick update, I've compiled my list for the post about "manipulating" men to get what you want, without having to put out.. well atleast, not as much lol. So that will be up some time tomorrow.
Now, I don't know if I mentioned this one SD, his name is xam maximus on facebook, any of you girls out there come in contact with him? his emails are like contracts, here's a paragraph.. "Please understand that with our negotiated agreement, said agreement shall be structured to increase over time, with the development of the arrangement and the quality and frequency of said same. The current cap that shall be reached over time is $48,000 per annum, but add to said same the benefits, perks, bonuses, and gifts, and it is well in line with the more traditional relationships (trophy wife, which this is NOT). Again, not seeking a trophy wife (at this stage), and time, quality and quantity are benchmarks in this and any other arrangement."
Now at first, I was like hmmm... I found a legit one, but now, not so much... he's off somehow, and his emails seem pre typed.. and just pasted, and he seems robotic like, but I will investigate further. so what do you girls think? YAY? or NAY?!
Jayde Nicole xox
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Hello Hello! =)
Hey sugar babies!
K, so this post is just simply an update and a rambling lol.
Mr, now, not so handsome and I, HAD a date tomorrow at 1:30pm but I decided to post pone it due to the hectic schedule i'm going to have to abide by this week, and to also further convince myself to go! hahaha.
I'm starting to get frustrated with the men on SA. To the new sugar babies out there, don't get yourself excited or start thinking about your new sugar life until you see some sugar and have that clump of sugar in your hands, otherwise, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. However I have received 2 new messages on SA from older men, one of them from a 62 year old, girls, that's quite old, I didn't even think guys could still get it up at that age lmao. The 62 year old, looks like a skinny version of santa, white hair, white eyebrows, and white short beard lmao, I did message him back and I know he read my message because SA has this cool little email feature that shows you the receiver has read the message by placing a check mark beside your sent message, and an x if the receiver hasn't read the message yet, well, he has read it, but hasn't replied yet.. odd.. I think he's another one of those "not serious SD's."
The other email is from a guy that is nearly 50, although his pics don't really show his true age, unless they are old pics.. anyhow, he seems like a nice enough guy. His message wasn't quite as long but seemed like it was on a cheerful note, apparently, he's worth quite a lot, and when I mean a lot, i'm talking about more than 50 mill. That is all I know about him as of now.
I also had a message from a young guy, we'll call Charm, he's 26 and has his own "small mortgage brokerage" well we hit it off on our first short conversation but seems he's quite busy, so I'll update you girlies on that as soon as anything happens with him.
Now, Mr not so handsome is BORINGGGG! Yes, BORING. J.lee commented on one my posts which I talked about Mr not so handsome and we compared him to Quasimodo, well, he's worse than that, not so much looks wise, although his face does look like he got hit by a trailer tractor, but communication wise, omg, its like he's elmo, but with a max of 5 sayings/comments/responses programmed into him, he does NOT know how to carry on a conversation.. you girls must be like, "he can't be THAT bad", oh yess he is! He's worse than what you're thinking! Example of our conversations, if you could even call it that..
Him: Hey
Me: Hey, whats up?
Him: Nothing
uhmmm how am I supposed to respond to that?! are you having fun doing nothing? I think not. Sounds hostile.
*two hours later*
Him: Hey, what are you doing?
Me: grocery shopping with 2 of my friends
Him: oh
again, wtf is wrong with this guy?
*4 hours later*
Him: Hey, how are you doing?
Me: I'm good, yourself?
Him: fine
...dude are you mentally handicapped.. no, not even that, cause i've had better conversations with handicaps and newborns.
I think that is my update for today, my next post will be on how to manipulate a SD to get what you want, without having to put out, and face it, I don't think many of us fantasize about doing the deed with 50-70 year olds lol, at first, I was hesitant about doing the post for worry of negative feed back, but I think it's more beneficial than destructive, and besides, Chloe convinced me to lol, talk to you girls soon!
Jayde Nicole xox
K, so this post is just simply an update and a rambling lol.
Mr, now, not so handsome and I, HAD a date tomorrow at 1:30pm but I decided to post pone it due to the hectic schedule i'm going to have to abide by this week, and to also further convince myself to go! hahaha.
I'm starting to get frustrated with the men on SA. To the new sugar babies out there, don't get yourself excited or start thinking about your new sugar life until you see some sugar and have that clump of sugar in your hands, otherwise, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. However I have received 2 new messages on SA from older men, one of them from a 62 year old, girls, that's quite old, I didn't even think guys could still get it up at that age lmao. The 62 year old, looks like a skinny version of santa, white hair, white eyebrows, and white short beard lmao, I did message him back and I know he read my message because SA has this cool little email feature that shows you the receiver has read the message by placing a check mark beside your sent message, and an x if the receiver hasn't read the message yet, well, he has read it, but hasn't replied yet.. odd.. I think he's another one of those "not serious SD's."
The other email is from a guy that is nearly 50, although his pics don't really show his true age, unless they are old pics.. anyhow, he seems like a nice enough guy. His message wasn't quite as long but seemed like it was on a cheerful note, apparently, he's worth quite a lot, and when I mean a lot, i'm talking about more than 50 mill. That is all I know about him as of now.
I also had a message from a young guy, we'll call Charm, he's 26 and has his own "small mortgage brokerage" well we hit it off on our first short conversation but seems he's quite busy, so I'll update you girlies on that as soon as anything happens with him.
Now, Mr not so handsome is BORINGGGG! Yes, BORING. J.lee commented on one my posts which I talked about Mr not so handsome and we compared him to Quasimodo, well, he's worse than that, not so much looks wise, although his face does look like he got hit by a trailer tractor, but communication wise, omg, its like he's elmo, but with a max of 5 sayings/comments/responses programmed into him, he does NOT know how to carry on a conversation.. you girls must be like, "he can't be THAT bad", oh yess he is! He's worse than what you're thinking! Example of our conversations, if you could even call it that..
Him: Hey
Me: Hey, whats up?
Him: Nothing
uhmmm how am I supposed to respond to that?! are you having fun doing nothing? I think not. Sounds hostile.
*two hours later*
Him: Hey, what are you doing?
Me: grocery shopping with 2 of my friends
Him: oh
again, wtf is wrong with this guy?
*4 hours later*
Him: Hey, how are you doing?
Me: I'm good, yourself?
Him: fine
...dude are you mentally handicapped.. no, not even that, cause i've had better conversations with handicaps and newborns.
I think that is my update for today, my next post will be on how to manipulate a SD to get what you want, without having to put out, and face it, I don't think many of us fantasize about doing the deed with 50-70 year olds lol, at first, I was hesitant about doing the post for worry of negative feed back, but I think it's more beneficial than destructive, and besides, Chloe convinced me to lol, talk to you girls soon!
Jayde Nicole xox
Friday, August 20, 2010
Second Thoughts..
So as of last night, quite a lot of things have happened, or well, have occurred in my mind. Mr Sweetums isn't actually so sweet, he's actually turned out to be quite creepy.. almost pervy-like.. so DELETE! he can't seem to stop talking about sexual things.. not down for that, I'm not an escort, I'm a sugar babe.
Things with Mr Mysterioso is probably going to come to a halt also, sure he's more than cute for his age but today, I figure he's not serious about having a sugar babe if he has time to hang out with a PLAYBOY MODEL. Yeap. That's right. Seems like i'm getting the shitty end of the stick when it comes to this, *sigh* well you're probably wondering how this came about? i texted him good morning around 11am and he responds with "Hi gorgeous" and i was all uppity and excited, *NTS: don't ever get excited about any sugar daddy until I see some actual SUGAR!* than I asked "what are you doing?" and he says "just hanging out with a playboy model" ....uhm excuse me?! wtf? if you can have time for a playboy model you surely can have time to go out for lunch with me, but apparently his last email i had from him states that he will be busy for the next 2 weeks.. busy doing what? hanging out with playboy models? don't get me wrong, i'm not jealous, i'm annoyed he wasted my time. So DELETE!
Things with Mr HT probably are gonna be put on hold for a bit, he doesn't really interest me and his net worth is less than a mill.. what can he really provide for me? probably nothing. and he's out of the country for the next two weeks. So i'm probably just gonna leave it at that, maybe end all communication.
Things are iffy with Mr Handsome, we talked briefly via msn and text.. he seems so boring! he says that working is his passion, sure that means money but that also means boring, BUT, that also means busy, which means I see him less for a big allowance.. to refresh your memory 5000 a month i'll be getting from this guy. I have a date with him on monday at 1:30pm at a cafe shop, i'm nervous and hesitant to go.. he's never had a sugar baby before and he seems nice enough offering me a ride but for my safety, i'll take the cab. Oh and I requested a picture from him and so far, nothing yet.. soo i'm really unsure, i'll see if i can get a picture of him over this weekend, if not, the date is off, thats just too sketchy for me. Also, i'm sure all he has in mind is sex, I don't see him and I doing movies or dinner dates.. so, once again, i'm not a pro.
But on a brighter note, I have received 2 more messages on SA. One from a guy that is 26 and the other 45. The 26 year old, whom i'll name Guelph, and the 45 year old i'll name Washington, because simply, that's all I know of them so far.
Guelph is a guy that is looking for a sugar babe with potential to be more, which works fine for me. He is single and is "expected to date" so we don't really have to be discreet. I look forward in getting to know him simply because he is young, and even if the whole SD/SB doesn't work out, I have a gut feeling we can be friends... which could lead to more eventually, if you catch my drift. He wants a lady that he could bring to upscale functions and also to just hang out with his friends which sounds absolutely marvelous to me!
Washington has told me he has 5 ex wives and therefore, knows how to take care of his ladies.. but than why are they his ex wives? anywho's he travels a lot from Washington, to Toronto/Montreal, which works for me and he says that he won't be checking in on me very often but if there is an emergency I could always contact him, and I don't really know much about this guy but his net worth is from 1mill to 2mill so, I'll see how things go and keep you posted.
Thanks for reading! xox Jayde Nicole
EDIT: Mr handsome, is totally not Mr handsome at all! I asked him if his picture on SA was him and he says "no, but similar to me" and than i see him msn display pic pop up and similar my ass! his SA pic has a slim face and i would imagine have a fit body, uhmm in his real pic, he has a chubby round face... which i'm sure accompanies man boobs that i can somewhat make out in the picture as well and i'm sure, a chubby body, and him being 5'5 probably doesn't help. ick. Might have to do some hard thinking about this up coming date...oh boy, what do you sugars think?
Things with Mr Mysterioso is probably going to come to a halt also, sure he's more than cute for his age but today, I figure he's not serious about having a sugar babe if he has time to hang out with a PLAYBOY MODEL. Yeap. That's right. Seems like i'm getting the shitty end of the stick when it comes to this, *sigh* well you're probably wondering how this came about? i texted him good morning around 11am and he responds with "Hi gorgeous" and i was all uppity and excited, *NTS: don't ever get excited about any sugar daddy until I see some actual SUGAR!* than I asked "what are you doing?" and he says "just hanging out with a playboy model" ....uhm excuse me?! wtf? if you can have time for a playboy model you surely can have time to go out for lunch with me, but apparently his last email i had from him states that he will be busy for the next 2 weeks.. busy doing what? hanging out with playboy models? don't get me wrong, i'm not jealous, i'm annoyed he wasted my time. So DELETE!
Things with Mr HT probably are gonna be put on hold for a bit, he doesn't really interest me and his net worth is less than a mill.. what can he really provide for me? probably nothing. and he's out of the country for the next two weeks. So i'm probably just gonna leave it at that, maybe end all communication.
Things are iffy with Mr Handsome, we talked briefly via msn and text.. he seems so boring! he says that working is his passion, sure that means money but that also means boring, BUT, that also means busy, which means I see him less for a big allowance.. to refresh your memory 5000 a month i'll be getting from this guy. I have a date with him on monday at 1:30pm at a cafe shop, i'm nervous and hesitant to go.. he's never had a sugar baby before and he seems nice enough offering me a ride but for my safety, i'll take the cab. Oh and I requested a picture from him and so far, nothing yet.. soo i'm really unsure, i'll see if i can get a picture of him over this weekend, if not, the date is off, thats just too sketchy for me. Also, i'm sure all he has in mind is sex, I don't see him and I doing movies or dinner dates.. so, once again, i'm not a pro.
But on a brighter note, I have received 2 more messages on SA. One from a guy that is 26 and the other 45. The 26 year old, whom i'll name Guelph, and the 45 year old i'll name Washington, because simply, that's all I know of them so far.
Guelph is a guy that is looking for a sugar babe with potential to be more, which works fine for me. He is single and is "expected to date" so we don't really have to be discreet. I look forward in getting to know him simply because he is young, and even if the whole SD/SB doesn't work out, I have a gut feeling we can be friends... which could lead to more eventually, if you catch my drift. He wants a lady that he could bring to upscale functions and also to just hang out with his friends which sounds absolutely marvelous to me!
Washington has told me he has 5 ex wives and therefore, knows how to take care of his ladies.. but than why are they his ex wives? anywho's he travels a lot from Washington, to Toronto/Montreal, which works for me and he says that he won't be checking in on me very often but if there is an emergency I could always contact him, and I don't really know much about this guy but his net worth is from 1mill to 2mill so, I'll see how things go and keep you posted.
Thanks for reading! xox Jayde Nicole
EDIT: Mr handsome, is totally not Mr handsome at all! I asked him if his picture on SA was him and he says "no, but similar to me" and than i see him msn display pic pop up and similar my ass! his SA pic has a slim face and i would imagine have a fit body, uhmm in his real pic, he has a chubby round face... which i'm sure accompanies man boobs that i can somewhat make out in the picture as well and i'm sure, a chubby body, and him being 5'5 probably doesn't help. ick. Might have to do some hard thinking about this up coming date...oh boy, what do you sugars think?
Hello Sugar Babies!!
How are you all? This is my first blog and there will be so much more to come.
In this blog I talk about my decision to become a sugar baby, the sites i've chosen to sign up with and why, and getting to know the potential sugar daddies that have messaged me, so if this peaks your interest, read on!
What made me choose the sugar baby lifestyle you may ask? growing up, i've always had sisters that had "sugar daddies" but they were an item, and the sugar daddies weren't that old, probably 8 years age difference max. Thing is, I was always jealous of all the gifts they got, Chanel perfume, Juicy couture, Gucci bags, LV bags... like come on, which girl wouldn't right? but those were gifts, I would say it was rare for my sisters to have been given money, and if so, it wasn't much, probably no more than $300 a month. Well, they've all moved out now and are married/have kids and that left me, with my younger brother still in the house. I come from a broken family, long story short, my parents and I kept butting heads and I decided to pack up my stuff and I left, so now, I'm on my own, struggling with money, but never happier.
I signed up to SD.com but found out you had to pay to use the site, on that note, I was wondering if it was even worth it since i'm new to this and all. Needless to say, I did my research and found tons of negative reviews on SD.com, so I'm gonna put that on hold til I'm already experienced in the game, however, I did come across SA.com and its free, great site to test the waters I might add.
I had probably 18 messages overnight! I was excited but common sense kept telling me there might not be anything to be excited about due to internet predators, wannabe sugar daddies, creepy, lonely guys that just want sex. Well me being a newbie at this whole lifestyle, I didn't know much about how to talk to the sugar daddies, what to say, and how to ask how it all works regarding gifts and allowance. Unsurprisingly, I had to weed through all the messages and all in all, I found 4 possible sugar daddies, yeap, from 18.. to 4! So new sugar babies, watch out!
Things that helped me in the elimination process..
1.If they mention sex right off the bat, DELETE. (We're sugar babies, not prostitutes)
2.If you check out their profiles and feel something is off or they seem to be a fake, DELETE. (Trust your gut, saves you time and energy)
3.If you check out their profiles and they have no pictures, they seem decent, message them and ask for pictures for you to see, of course in a cute/flirtatious way, (who knows? they may be the jackpot you're looking for) if they object, ignore your question..which has happened to me, or they send you a picture that looks as if it could be searched on google images, DELETE! (Self explanatory)
4.If they make you feel uncomfortable within the first couple messages sent back and forth, i.e. talking about fantasies<== which to a certain point is normal, but you'll know when its crossing the line, disrespecting you, pressuring you to meet them right away.. DELETE! (In my honest opinion.. a sugar daddy who genuinely cares for you, would probably like to get you to feel comfortable around them, and even so, do some more digging and get to know all the gritty details about him, and wouldn't want to freak you out by asking you to see him the same day)
*There is probably more I could add to this list and some of you may disagree with me, but this is MY elimination process
So after deciding there were probably 4 potential pots.. I messaged all 4 of them and got to know each one,
1. There is this white guy who is around his mid 40's, he lives in a city not too far from me, an hour drive? and he seems so genuine and so sweet, we'll call him Mr. sweetums. We've talked about my allowance and right now, i'm starting off at a low amount, I figure I can always up the amount if needed, SEEMS like I have him hook, line, and sinker, so my amount currently is a minimum of 1500, he says he will pay me per visit so that I know he's not cheating me, as I expressed to him my concerns of all the bad seeds on SA and my trust issues, he also claims he has had a previous SB for 6 years and still is good friends with her and gives her a bit here and there but he says he'll focus all his attention on me. CONS! yes, CONS! I don't know what it is but he's either haven't had any in a very very long time or is a creep haha. He keeps asking me about what I don't like in bed, what I do, what my fantasies are, which I don't mind too much because I do consider myself a freak in the sheets, and so far, that is that, I still have to do a little bit more digging to see who he truly is, but for now, he's caught my attention, so my ranking.. HIGHLY POSSIBLE SD. (5 stars)
2. There is this asian guy, we will call him HT, I happen to be asian myself so I figure, what the heck, I'll tread the waters. We messaged back and forth and we got to know each other better, he's alright but far from the high ranking of Mr. Sweetums. On the 3rd email he sent me, he cut to the chase and was saying he was looking for some "intimate fun" and I straight up told him that I'm not down for that, if we can have dates where we can just watch movies, hang out, relax without him getting in my pants too, it might work out, and of course a SD/SB relationship at one point will lead to sexual activities, if you disagree, this isn't gonna work out for you. He than said that he is a gentleman and we would have regular dates as well, we haven't yet discussed my allowance amount and all that, but once we do, you guys will read about it :) oh, and he's young, 25 years old, so I am a little doubtful of him, BUT if he is all that he seems, and we go out in public, it'll probably feel more natural to be with someone around my age. Ranking for this guy atm.. Iffy(3 stars)
3. This guy is white, extremely handsome and is close to 50 years old, we'll call him Mysterioso, the reason for his name is because that's exactly what he is, MYSTERIOUS! for an old guy, I'd jump his bones any day and any time! from the few messages we've sent back and forth and i mean FEW. like 2 emails from him and 3 emails from me, and about 6-7 text messages from each of us, he seems so well mannered, so sweet, very complimentary, he compliments me all the time, and I can sense a bit of cockiness from him, he keeps saying "you'll like me" which I don't mind at all, it's quite attractive. He had forewarned me he'd be extremely busy the next two weeks and boy, he was not joking, he seems to always be on the run, hopefully after these 2 weeks, he'll make some time to get to know me better, he said he'd squeeze in some time for a dinner date but I told him not to worry, we have all the time in the world, and he has not once asked me anything sexual but mentioned it by saying "he's the energizer bunny" <== why is it that guys like to use this phrase so often lol. Anywho's that is all I know of Mysterioso, I must say I think he's got me thinking of him more than I am thinking of him, gotta turn that around, any advice for me from all you veteran sugar babies? I would really appreciate it.
4. Number 4 is a brown guy, we'll call him Handsome. From what I can tell so far, which is not a lot, he has one picture on SA, he's cute, takes care of his image, and he sports a chin strap which is my weakness, oh so sexy, but, I don't mean to stereotype but I'm worried of his stench, he did add in his message he is very clean, takes care of his hygiene and he only wants to meet 3-4 times a month for an allowance of 5000! BUT, yes, BUT! he says the way he is going to give me money is through direct deposit bi weekly of 2500, what do you babies think? suspicious? is this normal? feedback would be great! and the payroll is basically coming from his company, he says it'll be an employee pay cheque which is understandable because he mentioned discreet relationship, and the money is great! but method of payment has me on edge, any babies out there who have had payments like this before? I haven't really messaged him that much because Mr. Sweetums has had me preoccupied with conversation the past couple of days
After reading all of this, directed mainly at the veteran sugar babies, what do you babies think? any advice for me? I would really appreciate it. Thanks for reading, I know its lengthy. xox Jayde Nicole
In this blog I talk about my decision to become a sugar baby, the sites i've chosen to sign up with and why, and getting to know the potential sugar daddies that have messaged me, so if this peaks your interest, read on!
What made me choose the sugar baby lifestyle you may ask? growing up, i've always had sisters that had "sugar daddies" but they were an item, and the sugar daddies weren't that old, probably 8 years age difference max. Thing is, I was always jealous of all the gifts they got, Chanel perfume, Juicy couture, Gucci bags, LV bags... like come on, which girl wouldn't right? but those were gifts, I would say it was rare for my sisters to have been given money, and if so, it wasn't much, probably no more than $300 a month. Well, they've all moved out now and are married/have kids and that left me, with my younger brother still in the house. I come from a broken family, long story short, my parents and I kept butting heads and I decided to pack up my stuff and I left, so now, I'm on my own, struggling with money, but never happier.
I signed up to SD.com but found out you had to pay to use the site, on that note, I was wondering if it was even worth it since i'm new to this and all. Needless to say, I did my research and found tons of negative reviews on SD.com, so I'm gonna put that on hold til I'm already experienced in the game, however, I did come across SA.com and its free, great site to test the waters I might add.
I had probably 18 messages overnight! I was excited but common sense kept telling me there might not be anything to be excited about due to internet predators, wannabe sugar daddies, creepy, lonely guys that just want sex. Well me being a newbie at this whole lifestyle, I didn't know much about how to talk to the sugar daddies, what to say, and how to ask how it all works regarding gifts and allowance. Unsurprisingly, I had to weed through all the messages and all in all, I found 4 possible sugar daddies, yeap, from 18.. to 4! So new sugar babies, watch out!
Things that helped me in the elimination process..
1.If they mention sex right off the bat, DELETE. (We're sugar babies, not prostitutes)
2.If you check out their profiles and feel something is off or they seem to be a fake, DELETE. (Trust your gut, saves you time and energy)
3.If you check out their profiles and they have no pictures, they seem decent, message them and ask for pictures for you to see, of course in a cute/flirtatious way, (who knows? they may be the jackpot you're looking for) if they object, ignore your question..which has happened to me, or they send you a picture that looks as if it could be searched on google images, DELETE! (Self explanatory)
4.If they make you feel uncomfortable within the first couple messages sent back and forth, i.e. talking about fantasies<== which to a certain point is normal, but you'll know when its crossing the line, disrespecting you, pressuring you to meet them right away.. DELETE! (In my honest opinion.. a sugar daddy who genuinely cares for you, would probably like to get you to feel comfortable around them, and even so, do some more digging and get to know all the gritty details about him, and wouldn't want to freak you out by asking you to see him the same day)
*There is probably more I could add to this list and some of you may disagree with me, but this is MY elimination process
So after deciding there were probably 4 potential pots.. I messaged all 4 of them and got to know each one,
1. There is this white guy who is around his mid 40's, he lives in a city not too far from me, an hour drive? and he seems so genuine and so sweet, we'll call him Mr. sweetums. We've talked about my allowance and right now, i'm starting off at a low amount, I figure I can always up the amount if needed, SEEMS like I have him hook, line, and sinker, so my amount currently is a minimum of 1500, he says he will pay me per visit so that I know he's not cheating me, as I expressed to him my concerns of all the bad seeds on SA and my trust issues, he also claims he has had a previous SB for 6 years and still is good friends with her and gives her a bit here and there but he says he'll focus all his attention on me. CONS! yes, CONS! I don't know what it is but he's either haven't had any in a very very long time or is a creep haha. He keeps asking me about what I don't like in bed, what I do, what my fantasies are, which I don't mind too much because I do consider myself a freak in the sheets, and so far, that is that, I still have to do a little bit more digging to see who he truly is, but for now, he's caught my attention, so my ranking.. HIGHLY POSSIBLE SD. (5 stars)
2. There is this asian guy, we will call him HT, I happen to be asian myself so I figure, what the heck, I'll tread the waters. We messaged back and forth and we got to know each other better, he's alright but far from the high ranking of Mr. Sweetums. On the 3rd email he sent me, he cut to the chase and was saying he was looking for some "intimate fun" and I straight up told him that I'm not down for that, if we can have dates where we can just watch movies, hang out, relax without him getting in my pants too, it might work out, and of course a SD/SB relationship at one point will lead to sexual activities, if you disagree, this isn't gonna work out for you. He than said that he is a gentleman and we would have regular dates as well, we haven't yet discussed my allowance amount and all that, but once we do, you guys will read about it :) oh, and he's young, 25 years old, so I am a little doubtful of him, BUT if he is all that he seems, and we go out in public, it'll probably feel more natural to be with someone around my age. Ranking for this guy atm.. Iffy(3 stars)
3. This guy is white, extremely handsome and is close to 50 years old, we'll call him Mysterioso, the reason for his name is because that's exactly what he is, MYSTERIOUS! for an old guy, I'd jump his bones any day and any time! from the few messages we've sent back and forth and i mean FEW. like 2 emails from him and 3 emails from me, and about 6-7 text messages from each of us, he seems so well mannered, so sweet, very complimentary, he compliments me all the time, and I can sense a bit of cockiness from him, he keeps saying "you'll like me" which I don't mind at all, it's quite attractive. He had forewarned me he'd be extremely busy the next two weeks and boy, he was not joking, he seems to always be on the run, hopefully after these 2 weeks, he'll make some time to get to know me better, he said he'd squeeze in some time for a dinner date but I told him not to worry, we have all the time in the world, and he has not once asked me anything sexual but mentioned it by saying "he's the energizer bunny" <== why is it that guys like to use this phrase so often lol. Anywho's that is all I know of Mysterioso, I must say I think he's got me thinking of him more than I am thinking of him, gotta turn that around, any advice for me from all you veteran sugar babies? I would really appreciate it.
4. Number 4 is a brown guy, we'll call him Handsome. From what I can tell so far, which is not a lot, he has one picture on SA, he's cute, takes care of his image, and he sports a chin strap which is my weakness, oh so sexy, but, I don't mean to stereotype but I'm worried of his stench, he did add in his message he is very clean, takes care of his hygiene and he only wants to meet 3-4 times a month for an allowance of 5000! BUT, yes, BUT! he says the way he is going to give me money is through direct deposit bi weekly of 2500, what do you babies think? suspicious? is this normal? feedback would be great! and the payroll is basically coming from his company, he says it'll be an employee pay cheque which is understandable because he mentioned discreet relationship, and the money is great! but method of payment has me on edge, any babies out there who have had payments like this before? I haven't really messaged him that much because Mr. Sweetums has had me preoccupied with conversation the past couple of days
After reading all of this, directed mainly at the veteran sugar babies, what do you babies think? any advice for me? I would really appreciate it. Thanks for reading, I know its lengthy. xox Jayde Nicole
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